- LATENESS -
I have a problem with lateness.
I absolutely detest waiting for people who don't give a damn about being late. I am actually alright with late-comers as long as they do not affect me. Lets say if I had to wait for someone who was late for OUR appointment, you will see me in a very different light.
The real reason I am blogging this is because I am very pissed off with two of my closest friends. I don't understand why I have to always wait for them. I am not usually so petty but I think it is time to say enough is enough.
Yesterday was a very good example. Ok, I must admit that I was the one who asked to meet up with Leo at 1845hrs. Obviously, I would have expected him to be on time or at least call me if he was to be late. But did he? NO! Instead, it was me who sms and called him after I reached CP. So, he was actually under Kar's block waiting for her, no big deal, I am fine with it. But it is not too difficult to actually call to inform me right?
I don't know why the both of them always have to stick together. Like the last time, Leo was early but he forgot to take something from home so he called to inform me. I was ok with it(like usual) and I thought all I now have to do is to wait for Kar who was on her way back from work. This would take less than 5 minutes, I thought. So I waited and waited but she was not there. So I called her and guess where she was? She was with him and she followed him all the way to his home to get his stuff. I was just 2 stops away when Leo left for home, which means it is technically just a mere 4 plus minutes but did Kar wait for me? NO! She rather walk 10 minutes all the way with Leo than sit and wait for me for 5.
*Sign* I guess it is my own personal problem with lateness as what Kar say and I won't deny it. After all, we all have faults, it is just the way we deal with it. Like Leo, he will only reply your sms half an hour(sometimes even longer) later and Kar has a problem with lateness and bo chapness. Me? I am just so uptight and strict when it comes to punctuality.
Yes, I am easy going, but sometimes I cannot bear to think what if the world is full of people like my dear friends?
This anger inside of me is rather stifling and I might just blow up so I am just hoping for it to go away soon. I just do not have time for this kind of negativity in me. Meanwhile, I think I will just stop asking them out just for the time being.