- Going to Macau -
Yippee, whoppee! Finally, I am going somewhere and this time it is to Macau! *Sigh* Though it is supposed to be fun but nevertheless, it is still an educational trip and I have to write a critique paper after the trip. Well, hope everthing will go on fine. Especially when I was supposed to go Bali at first but the Kuta Square bombing cancelled all the plans. Work is so tiring and everyday, I wake up tired (who doesn't) but the feeling is so different. It ain't the physical kind of tiredness but more of the emotional kind. Shucks, hope everything will be ok soon after SIP ends.
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KISS ME @ 1:19 PM
Thursday, October 13, 2005 10:01 AM
A Funny Flirt
The direct approach has never worked for you. Instead, you like to charm guys by infiltrating their own territory and getting to know them in their own environment -- like Sigourney Weaver in Gorillas in the Mist, but with beer instead of bananas. The strategy is to make yourself indispensable -- be one of the guys, make jokes, be fun to hang around with, and avoid the games girls play as much as you can.
However, you're well acquainted with the danger of being one of the guys. It's that you can easily become...one of the guys. Watch out for that -- make sure people know there are breasts under that Celtics jersey. "Women like this create intimacy through what I like to call the buddy system," says Catherine Cardinal, PhD, author of The Ten Commandments of Relationships (Andrews McMeel, 2000). "You give the feeling of being in this together -- whether 'this' is a difficult situation you want to get out of, like a parking ticket, or something great, like your marriage." But when buddying up means you're not taken seriously, learn when to assert yourself. "Never underestimate the power of touch," Cardinal says. "A well-timed squeeze of the arm, pat on the shoulder, or hug reminds people that you're a force to be reckoned with. A female force."
Think Cameron Diaz. She's the queen of the burping contest, yet she knows when to glam it up, and nobody ever forgets she's a girl -- because she doesn't forget it, either.
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KISS ME @ 10:01 AM
Thursday, October 06, 2005 7:57 AM
- MISSING FOR 2 MONTHS -
I am back! Wow, it seems a long time since I actually blogged! Well, life is still the same for me now. SIP is going to end soon and I have to say that I have learnt alot of things this few months.
First thing I learnt is that there isn't any nice people around in fact everyone is the same. Of course, it is really great luck if you meet someone that gets along with you but work matters can often get you on the wrong side of things. I have been hurt but I got back up on my feet and I suddenly realised that there can be so many sides to a person. Of course, I am still surviving and enjoying life in the midst of all this c**p!
Second thing I learnt is not to be so nice to the people around. Seriously, all you get back is their bullying because they think you are a pushover. So now, I just do as I please, of course I keep that attitude in check when it is time to. But it gives me more confidence because I know I am doing something because I want to and not because someone forced me into it!
Still enjoying SIP though but can't wait for school to start! Till the next time!
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KISS ME @ 7:57 AM
Wednesday, October 05, 2005 6:23 PM
| Your Personality Profile |
 You are dreamy, peaceful, and young at heart.Optimistic and caring, you tend to see the best in people.You tend to be always smiling - and making others smile.
You are shy and intelligent... and a very hard worker.You're also funny, but many people don't see your funny side.Your subtle dry humor leaves your close friends in stitches. |
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